More than a month ago GMA aired a video that not only shocked me but once I took in
more details on the internet, absolutely outraged me. If you have just watched
it above this entry I will explain briefly that a woman took her child into the
art gallery portion of Overland Park Museum in Kansas then proceeded to sit
down and let her child run all over the museum with some other woman’s kid
until he ended up pulling down a sculpture worth $132,000 narrowly escaping
getting crushed himself. She proceeded to saunter over where her child
had moved away from what he’d done. When she finally made it over to where her
child appeared to be in shock, but okay, he ran away from her!
The gallery had it all on videotape, obviously, and she originally told
them she would pay for the damages until she found out what it was worth! She
sent GMA her own homemade video at a later time stating that she felt the museum
was negligent in displaying a piece of art so expensive where children were
allowed to visit! Then she said she was sure that her child could’ve been
killed. I’ve looked at this from all sides, including what the artist must
think of a woman who lets her child roam around in an art gallery, unsupervised
and being quite capable of creating this kind of damage. (Parents, especially
mothers, do know this about their children whether they’re willing to admit it
or not.) Not once did she mention anything about the artist or the destruction
of his work. In case someone may be rather misinformed (or perhaps uninitiated),
I will say that when you go into an art gallery or salon you are looking at
somebody’s hard work and also their property. If you have no respect for that,
you shouldn’t be there. Most museums are not a child’s playground and I don’t
consider this occasion a normal way for children to behave themselves anywhere,
personally.
My first reaction was this and I have not changed my mind yet: Why was she
not directly supervising her child at close range? Are we all to believe that
she didn’t know he was capable of doing this? These are the same questions that
the art gallery officials must have asked because they charged her with
negligence in supervising her child. She adamantly denies what is as plain as
the video itself. By taking this stance she has inexcusably taught her child
two things. One is showing no respect for other people’s property. Were they at
home? Somebody’s house? The mall? (And would that make a difference?) The
second thing she has taught him is not to take responsibility for one’s
actions. That’s why he ran away from her!
Since that time the museum settled this through their respective
insurance companies so hopefully the artist has been compensated financially.
There are two points I want to make in conclusion, however. First is the
damaged art which can’t ever really be replaced. That art is the artist’s baby,
Ms Negligence and it’s been destroyed. A price tag on it can’t replace it.
Value of art is intrinsic and extrinsic and is not truly meant to be
replicated. If the artist tries to recreate the piece of art it will be
different. That may not mean anything to you but it will eventually to the
artist. Second, if you can’t see value in the art destroyed as something
reserved by the person who created it
then I would suggest that you keep yourself and your child away from the places
where fine art is displayed. Either that or start teaching your child how to
act when you’re not at home. You’ll probably be spending more time in a
doctor’s office, anyway, until and unless you start taking some responsibility
for what he does. A child lives what he learns.
2 comments:
Great post, Evelyn. You've done a thorough job of presenting this information, it's very enlightening. I agree with you, children learn what they live. I also agree that this mother has taught her child two lessons that will surely come back to haunt them both.
Good to see you Leona. It's a shame that it happened and she was very lucky that he wasn't hurt. Children watch everything their parents do and emulate it so the way she handled it is the way he'll handle everything in life. People ought to know this but often they can't see that the child looks to them to learn how to deal with people and trouble. I hope she sees this and reads it closely. I feel like if I have to play the devil's advocate perhaps she'll wake up and smell the coffee before it's too late.
Thanks for the encouraging comments !
Evelyn
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